NEVER DO THESE TWO THINGS POST BREAK-UP.

You are in a very beautiful relationship and all of a sudden one day,when you wake up ,your partner calls it a quit. You have absolutely no clue what went wrong? Your natural instinct is to clarify the matter. However, your partner is in no mood to reconcile.

You should never do these two things if you nurture any hope of getting back together. However, human psychology suggest agains our natural instinct.

First : Don’t keep calling. Our natural instinct is to Vaal the person. How’re, the person keeps avoiding you. You constantly keep calling them to the point of stalking. You should not do this. Respect their decision and give them ample time and space to ponder and rethink about their decision. Chances are that they may regret the decision taken in the heat of the moment. Your constantly nagging them will only greater the situation.

Second : Do not play the blame game. When our partner has dumped us we tend to play the blame game. This worsens the situation and your partner looses complete faith in you. Instead of playing the blame game it’s wise to be quit. Keep an element of surprise and let your partner anticipate. It has been observed that silence plays a vital role in showing your maturity. This shows that you can handle the situation in a very mature way.

Instead of doing these things you should rather focus on self development and become the better version of yourself. You will not only increase the chances of getting back together but also be a better person than before.